BOLD COACHING + BROTHERHOOD FOR All MEN
Defy the ordinary.
Transcend what’s expected.
UNLEASH THE REAL YOU.
I ignite transformation for men who are ready to reclaim their power and redefine what it means to be a modern man—on their own terms. This isn’t about becoming a better man for someone else. It’s about breaking free from performance, rebuilding self-trust, and finally belonging to yourself. My unapologetic, embodied approach shatters old patterns of conformity and amplifies your authentic self with fiercely-loving, raw clarity.
This is a space for men of all identities—especially those who’ve never quite felt at home in traditional definitions of manhood. Through deep men’s work, we transform your limits, challenge outdated ideals, and help you step into the unstoppable force you were meant to be.
Welcome to a no-bullshit approach to men’s work and transformation—where we cut through the noise, challenge societal conditioning, and get to the root of what’s really keeping you disconnected, stuck, or silently struggling.
In this space, you’ll dismantle the beliefs that have shaped your identity but never truly fit—whether they show up in your relationships, your ambition, or the way you perform who you think you’re supposed to be. This work doesn’t ask you to become someone else. It invites you to stop performing and start living from a place of deep self-trust, integrity, and embodied truth.
You won’t do it alone. You’ll be held in a space that challenges you to rise—not for others, but for yourself. This is your moment to step beyond outdated definitions of masculinity, drop the masks, and finally claim a life that’s unapologetically real, deeply connected, and entirely your own.
You’re a man who’s done everything “right”—you’ve worked hard, held it all together, and played the part. But something feels off. Beneath the surface, it doesn’t feel good. A sense that no one really sees you. That you’ve been living behind a mask, performing a version of yourself that is getting harder to maintain.
Maybe you’ve built a life that looks good—but feels hollow. Maybe you’re tired of being the reliable one, the strong one, the “rock” for everyone else, the one who never asks for help. You’re tired of not having deep relationships—people who truly see you. Maybe you’re starting to realize that performing safety isn’t the same as feeling safe.
The cost of avoiding this truth is steep: the slow burn of emptiness, the weight of unexpressed anger, the ache of not being chosen—not just by others, but by yourself. No more. This is the moment to confront what’s been running beneath the surface. To stop performing and start reclaiming the parts of you that you’ve blocked. To step outside the roles and bullshit you’ve been handed, and become the man you were always meant to be—real, in your body, unapologetic, and finally free.
You’ve mastered the art of being reliable, successful, or put-together—but you’re quietly wondering who actually sees you underneath it all.
Surface-level interactions aren’t cutting it anymore. You want to be surrounded by men who can meet you in your depth, your power, and your full humanity.
The rules never fit. They only taught you to suppress, censor, or overcompensate. Now, you’re ready to define masculinity on your terms—and feel at home in your body while doing it.
Whether you’re burned out on the party scene, shut out of traditional men’s spaces, or just tired of doing this alone—you know it’s time to reconnect.
Maybe it was the Good Guy. The Good Gay. The one who doesn’t rock the boat. You’re ready to stop performing safety and start feeling it.
You’ve been told to soften, to perform, to be palatable—but what you really want is to be free to be all of you. Without apology, without shrinking.
Not just in your mind—but in your instincts, your body, your knowing. The kind of self-trust that doesn’t waiver with approval, achievement, or rejection.
PRAISE
"It’s hard to put into words the impact that Henri has had on my personal and professional growth, but one comes to mind – transformational. It’s not hyperbole to say that my life and career were in a very tenuous, uncertain place when I connected with him. I genuinely thought that I was too big, too loud, too much to build a career, let alone a life in politics and media. But, he got me.
Henri understood what I brought to the table. He helped me see my own potential in all its facets, and guided me with thoughtfulness, openness, and more than a little straight talk – he calls me on my shit while making me believe in my own power and capacity to do more. The me today is far more self-directed, self-assured, and self-aligned than I could’ve ever imagined, and that is thanks in part to the advice and guidance provided by Henri… Like I said, transformational.
If you have the opportunity to be coached by Henri or even have a conversation with him, prepare yourself for a powerful experience and be ready to do the deep work, because it will be worth it for your business, your relationships, your career, and ultimately yourself."
"When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.
I’d considered a coach before but never really thought it could make a difference, I’ve got an MBA and believe I’m smart enough. But then the teacher appeared. And the year spent working with Henri was more powerful than I could have imagined; professionally and personally. When we started I was freelancing and trying to chase my passion project as a hustle. Together we clarified my real purpose, defined the business and then it was off to the races. During this time I was able to transition from the overwhelm of working IN my business to the power of working ON my business, evolving it into something that is sustainable beyond trading hours for dollars.
Working with Henri has been a godsend. I’ve spent 50, scratch that, 49 years developing the tracks in my mind telling me not to want a life bigger…and reinforcing the reasons it’s not achievable. And one year opening my eyes to all the ways I’ve gotten in my own way. Our sessions were always comfortable and thought-provoking. When you show up in your business, you show up as your whole self, so we looked deep at everything from prioritizing and eliminating overwhelm, to improving interpersonal relationships through agreement setting. Although we’ve not actually met in person, Henri is family and a regular appearance in my morning gratitude practice."
"Henri is one of the best in the industry. Working with him is a powerful and transformative experience. Not only was I able to uncover deeper parts of myself that I didn't realize were holding me back, but I was also able to shift from stagnant energy to more motivation and inspiration to reach my goals.
Henri's work gave me the freedom to not judge myself, make decisions that aligned with my values, and focus on the goals that mattered most to me. Plus, he helped me to release the internal dialogues that were preventing me from moving forward.
Because of Henri, I walked away with clarity, new insight, and actionable steps that I can use forever! In addition, I received genuine, authentic, and organic support. He's an active listener and a caring coach. He centers each session around your immediate needs that lead to long-term, empowered transformation. If you want practical growth with heart, mind, and spiritual alignment, I highly recommend him!"
"Being coached by Henri is a gift, and one which has changed the way I understand myself and who I want to be in the world. The space he creates with fierce love and non-judgement feels like a playground in which I can explore what is possible for me and for the world, where I’m holding myself back, what’s in my way, and what needs to shift so I can make the possibility become real. Which, with his help and constant unconditional belief and encouragement, I have started to do. My business has grown and taken on new and better forms thanks to his brilliant questions, thoughtful reflections, nudges and – at the right moments – him calling me out on my BS.
I have built healthier relationships and found ways through seemingly impossible conflicts. I am happier in myself, in who I am, and able to enjoy the life I have more. Henri won’t ever stop at the surface level, he will get to the want behind the want, the goal behind the goal, what really actually matters. He is not afraid to dig deep, and find transformation even in the most seemingly superficial of places. Some of the blocks I have faced have been deeply complicated, including those rooted in trauma.
While I have a therapist to do the trauma healing work with, Henri is aware and deeply informed about trauma and so is able to allow us to hold it safely, and explore around the edges of it. It means that we can still focus on moving forward into the future, and no need to delve into the depths of the trauma wounds, but knowing he has the capacity to manage and make space for and awareness of these aspects of me is really significant. Working with Henri is fun, hard, easy, complex, deep, light-hearted, and transformative all at once. I hope that as many people as possible get the opportunity to experience his presence in their lifetime. If it’s an option for you – take it!"
"Henri acts as both guide and provocateur as he shined light in areas I forgot were there and he stretched me beyond limits I never knew I had. His wisdom, attention and support gave me the space to shift out dated beliefs and false truths I had of who I was; so that I can take ownership of who I really am. Thank you Henri for being my guiding light when my batteries needed recharging and reminding me where the recharger is. I can now walk on the path I’ve always wanted to be on."
"Being in Henri’s presence alone makes me a better version of myself! Add his coaching on top of it - wow, truly life changing. He is the real deal! Henri’s innate ability to listen, to hear what I am actually saying and then to distill the information (so I can understand what I am saying) is paramount. One of my favorite things about him is that he is a rebel with a heart of gold and tenderness. I feel so supported, seen and heard in his presence, yet also appropriately challenged and held accountable. The deeper, personal perspectives that he holds space for me to tap into are unique and enlightening - it’s magical really!
Another important quality I seek in a coach is intuition, which Henri has in spades! I really cannot recommend Henri enough. I will always cherish and hold dear to my heart the impact he has made (and continues to make) in my life!"
From a client's partner:
"My gal worked with Henri for a year and it was the best year of my life! She learned to develop agreement rather than expectations, organize her thoughts and follow through on plans.. I’ve watched not just her business thrive, but our relationship has grown too. And, through all the dinners of her saying “well Henri said…” I learned a few things that have helped my life and career too. What a great opportunity if you get the chance to work with Henri."
Henri Emile isn’t here to play nice or tiptoe around the truth. He’s a master at cutting through performance and posturing—guiding men to reclaim their power, trust their bodies, and finally feel like themselves again. With a deep understanding of the hidden struggles many men carry—especially those who’ve felt left out of traditional conversations around masculinity—Henri’s approach is unapologetically direct, fiercely compassionate, and rooted in deep nervous system and somatic work. He doesn’t just coach—he facilitates the kind of transformation that gets under the surface, stays in your bones, and changes everything.
With 7 years of experience and certifications in holistic coaching, somatics, and generative trance, Henri has created a space where body, mind, and identity come into alignment.
He weaves empathy and clarity into a space where clients feel seen without judgment and challenged without shame. While much of his work centers men’s healing, Henri welcomes all identities into his space. If you’re ready to stop performing your life and start living it—this work will meet you there.
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