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A Better 'We' Starts with Me

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Darcel Being

About

Darcel Being

Darcel Being, founder of the "SHE"-EO Arise Transformation Program™ and the thriving "Being Well Community" with over 11,000 members, is a Master Certified Mindset Coach, Certified Brain Trainer, and celebrated author of "My Curly, Coily Crown." With a degree in psychology and over a decade of experience in business and spiritual leadership, Darcel serves as a guiding light and soulful support for motivated entrepreneurs and creatives. Her approach integrates cognitive behavioral coaching principles, radical heart-centered compassion, and unapologetic passion to inspire intentional action and transformative growth, enabling individuals to navigate life transitions with faith and success.

About This Episode

In this episode, Henri and Darcel explore relationships, discussing enmeshment, personal independence, societal pressures on women, and the transformative impact of conscious uncoupling. They emphasize self-love, growth, open communication, and the importance of modeling healthy dynamics for children, advocating for authenticity and trust in fostering fulfilling relationships.

About

Darcel Being

Darcel Being, founder of the "SHE"-EO Arise Transformation Program™ and the thriving "Being Well Community" with over 11,000 members, is a Master Certified Mindset Coach, Certified Brain Trainer, and celebrated author of "My Curly, Coily Crown." With a degree in psychology and over a decade of experience in business and spiritual leadership, Darcel serves as a guiding light and soulful support for motivated entrepreneurs and creatives. Her approach integrates cognitive behavioral coaching principles, radical heart-centered compassion, and unapologetic passion to inspire intentional action and transformative growth, enabling individuals to navigate life transitions with faith and success.

Show Notes

Takeaways

  • Maintaining Independence and Aligned Core Values: Ensuring personal independence and shared core values are essential for healthy and balanced relationships.
  • Modeling Healthy Dynamics and Self-Love: Demonstrating healthy relationship behaviors and self-love is crucial for children's development and their future relationship choices.
  • Open Communication and Personal Growth: Open, honest communication and a commitment to personal growth are foundational for building and maintaining healthy relationships.
  • Acceptance and Authenticity: Embracing acceptance and authenticity in relationships, rather than trying to change one another, fosters genuine connections and mutual respect.
  • Clarifying Values and Vision: Clearly defining individual values and a shared vision before committing to a long-term relationship helps ensure alignment and mutual understanding.

Chapters

  • 00:00 Introduction
  • 01:26 Maintaining Independence in a Relationship
  • 07:36 The Role of Values in Relationships
  • 10:02 Creating a List of Desired Qualities in a Partner
  • 33:40 The Importance of Non-Negotiables
  • 36:21 The Dangers of Trying to Change Your Partner
  • 39:06 Clear Communication and Facing the Hard Conversations
  • 43:24 Taking Back Your Power in the Relationship
  • 45:04 Clarifying Values and Vision
  • 53:15 The Role of Sexual Discipline
  • 58:23 Having the Courage to Have the Hard Conversations

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